Topic 7190737

DH//737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:20:16

 

© photo Orestes Alamo - montage Digital

 

 

737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:20:16

Too long, what am I writing here? I'm the one who writes after all! If you don't have the strength to invest the five or ten minutes it would take you to read me, how do you think you can survive a date, or even a hot date? I promise these things last more than 5 minutes!

Super mega-important things you need to know:

1) Here lies a fan of tennis, seafood, and chocolate! I also have a crush on Heineken and champagne - Veuve Amiot, find me and I will love you. I'm always looking for a hedonistic partnership.

2) I love to travel, so potential travel companions are welcome. If you would like to visit, or if you are even able to offer accommodation at the following locations, let me know: Amsterdam, Eastern Europe, Scandinavia, Bé-Né-Lux, Germany, Portugal, Australia / New Zealand, Kenya, South Africa, Costa Rica, South America… or a cruise trip or a backpack trip.

3) Interests / Hobbies: In short, I am interested in a lot of everything except fishing and hunting. But if you are looking for tracks: tennis, I insist, badminton, swimming, curling, cross-country skiing, outdoor activities, gastronomy - preparation and tasting (I love, I idolize the food), gym ( for health, not to become more irresistible than I already am in my own eyes, camping, financial planning / investing, dancing (sometimes all night - welcome dance / party partners), board games, politics, l humanism, amusement parks, the performing arts, music and, again, travel.

4) Stats (you lie if you say you don't care - laughs): 35 years old, 1m80, (in real life, not just in my head), 176 pounds, 32/33 in height, sero +, broad shoulders , athletic body, and pleasantly hairy. My nature is to be 150% submissive but I can be happily versatile with another versatile dude if there is good chemistry setting in (that being said, when I'm in a position of domination, tie your toque with spindle!

5) If you don't want to fuck people who are HIV positive, which is your right, you should know that I have experienced amazing safe (no BB) sex with guys who are HIV positive and others who are not not. It's up to you to do what you want with this information. By the way, don't use the word "clean". Not only is this insulting, its use infers that people with HIV are somehow "dirty". And that is really not cool.

7) I believe in the existence of vampires. If you believe that having a desirable body, an impressive member, a young age, a supermodel look, social status, money, athletic habits in gyms and saunas in Toronto or elsewhere, or else the fact that you are HIV negative gives you the right to be stupid towards other people, we will not get along. We are all, first of all, human.

Hint: It is an asset if you are ethical, wired in mind or humor, demonstrative, creative, able to use common sense, reliable, and a person at ease in the company of someone who can mess around.

Well. It's been ... let's start.

I'm a good-natured, cheerful, friendly, and upbeat guy who has had a life journey leading to a lot of soul-searching and personal growth.

Not only can I tell you what I believe in, but also the reasons why I believe it.

Therefore, at 35, I have reached a critical point in my life where I know what kind of man I am and what my values ​​are; I have enough self-esteem not to accept less than I know I deserve; and where I found my way so I can use it to assert myself, if necessary.

On the flip side, I learned that often the problem is not what you decide but how you carry out the decision; when someone is suffering, the question of whether there was an intention to cause suffering is secondary to the suffering being experienced at the same time; that there is great power in forgiveness; how to confess when I am wrong; how to apologize; how to empathize; and how, when necessary, put aside my own selfish interests in order to do what is best for more than just me.

I admit straight away that I am a paradox in that I am very open-minded and modern when it comes to long-term relationships, but very old games when it comes to good manners, deserved respect, courtesy, sweet treats. , and concern for others. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, I believe our moms were right when they taught us that there are things that just don't get done!

Some would say that I am demanding when it comes to authenticity and self-integrity, but I don't assess others to a different standard than I impose on myself. If I demand anything from you, it is because I have the certainty of being able to deliver the same thing.

And although some would say that having such a firm sense of myself makes me stubborn, my response is that I'm curious, eclectic, adventurous (arm twisting sometimes required), that I like a good debate or a hot one. discussion, that I am actually interested in the perspective of others, and that I do not shy away from passion or intensity during a discussion.

I can assure you that I am more than open to the possibility of my perspective being influenced and taking on new challenges. But, I have also been around the block enough times to, in certain contexts, what works and doesn't work for me, what I am and am not capable of, and where my limits are.

With me, the sand tile is immense. But its borders are firm.

I try to surround myself with positive people who are also at this point in their life.

People who know who they are, have integrity because their actions match their words, who know what they want, and who are not afraid to be exactly who they are. People who know how to respect other people's boundaries and can accept being told when a boundary has been breached, admit their mistake, and take the necessary steps to correct the situation without needing to be. make a cinema.

People who, rather than saying that they no longer have childhood ailments to deal with, put their ailments on the table - because you know they are there; and if you don't know, talk to your friends. If they're real friends, they'll let you know, it won't take long - and say, “There you go! These are my own sufferings. There, you know. "

Brutal Truth: We all have our sufferings. The question is: "After dressing them, do you have any tape left?"

People who, like me, try to be deliberate in the choice of their words and gestures, who act with a clear intention, who live the present moment (without sacrificing the future), and who try to live according to the principle: "May each person who crosses my path today have their day improved by this experience."

With this, I'm definitely not an angel.

In fact, I am quite a "bad boy" - but I am a good "bad boy" - and accomplices who are just as comfortable with their "inner bad boy" without losing their balance, or their integrity or sense. ethics, are particularly welcome!

737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:28:11

This day is enhanced by our meeting, and the reading that you offer with a profile as exquisite as transparent in honesty. I would be willing to engulf myself more in the pleasure of a symbiosis with such an effervescent being. Good day to you too, mad and wise in desire, of a magus subject to the ambiguity of his feelings for you.

 

 

Topic 7190745

DH//745 Re://T7190 [Soav/Maks - Correction] post. 21-05-27 15:27:33

 

 

Maksim Wromski - If you're curious, I can keep telling you everything.

 

Orestes Alamo - Tell me what?

 

M. W. - In a message I just sent you I told you about the fact that the other time they talked about intimate things about me when I was disabled. You probably haven't received it, the server is super busy, completely overwhelmed by techno, it's nothing more or less than shit here.

 

O. A. - No, I receive everything, but sometimes after a delay.

 

M. W. - I find you thoughtful at times. I don't know why I feel like you weigh every word I say.

 

O. A. - Do you find me intrusive?

 

M. W. - You're not intrusive, it's just that you analyze too much the words used, that's all. And if I asked you that earlier, at the beginning, it's because the other time we started talking about very intimate things about me concerning my background with men when I was disabled.

 

O. A. - Perhaps what you are looking for here is a helping relationship? Simple question.

 

M. W. - No not at all.

 

O. A. - I like guys like you who have a past and who talk about it to free themselves from it.

 

M. W. - You told me that you are a doctor, a medical student, but I am not at all in need of a doctor for the helping relationship. Do not worry. I am very simple here. My past I am talking about with a guy who is curious and interested in knowing things, in the context of a discussion.

 

O. A. - Have you had lovers since you came out of your paralysis?

 

M. W. - Yes, but very little. Ironically, it was more during my quadriplegia that I knew several men who came to meet me at home, etc.

 

O. A. - Yes, I know that. Question, free to answer or not. Do you regret this time to the point of always bringing it to the surface of the present? Has it become a fantasy with you or am I wrong? It's been all the same several times that you bring back the past without realizing too much that for someone who has not lived this kind of experience there is a rather unbearable painful side, or you hope what by relieving yourself of these experiences?

 

Mr. W. - You're cute that you told me the other day that you never wanted to endure what I went through.

 

O. A. - No, never. For me, sexuality is the culmination of a desire with respect and admiration.

 

Mr. W. - Ah ok, I apologize, I plead guilty, I do not realize the unbearable side. And no, it's not a fantasy at all. It's my past life, and I have no regrets. It is beautiful and magnificent. You are right. But when you were quadriplegic until the age of 32, you have to accept a bit of not living that, and being a bit like just a mouth and an ass that makes men cum and you find yourself useful with that, because there are not a ton of sources of valorization when you are nailed to a chair and dependent for everything everything. I had a strong mind.

 

O. A. - There is no judgment in what I'm telling you, I know how to look at shamelessness and suffering, but in fact the question is above all your father. How are your relationships today? Or am I perhaps prying to ask you that? The photos you show of your beautiful face go so far against what you reveal about yourself ... I was asking you: how are you with your father?

 

M. W. - No problem. But we rarely see each other. He's had a wife for a while. But now, don't be in shock, okay? I haven't told you everything about my relationship with my father.

 

O. A. - I can hardly see what you mean.

 

M. W. - I have never been in darkness or dark thoughts. I had a strong mind. I've always smiled, but I won't lie to you if I'm nailed to a chair without being able to use my arms and legs, look out the window at life, etc. Not even being able to masturbate yourself, lol, that doesn't always make you super happy and you don't always find yourself very useful. And it is true that the men who were interested in me for not always the real business it has the merit of at least making me feel useful when the man enjoyed in me, I apologize for being believed.

 

O. A. - You don't have to apologize Maksim but you must understand that it is not given to everyone to read what you write without experiencing a minimum of discomfort.

 

M. W. - I just don't want you to be too shocked and upset, confused. I never saw myself as a victim of anything.

 

O. A. - No, but let's say that for tonight I have to respect my limits. I don't really need a lot of detail to understand a given situation, I can read between the lines. He's spending four hours, we say goodnight?

 

*

 

Mr. W. - It's 2:06 pm, Friday, I see you online, I just wanted to say hello, if you're busy I don't want to disturb you.

 

O. A. - Hello Maksim I was, as you will have noticed, come to drink a few messages before returning home to undertake a well-deserved weekend. I wish you the same - see you, Orest.

 

*

 

M. W. - Yes. It's been a while since we crossed paths. I told myself that maybe there had been something.

 

O. A. - We stay calm. I am in exams.

 

M. W. - Ok. I just said that in the context that there was a regularity in the frequency of your passages here. I'm not crazy to say it. And it's not a pressure of anything. I was just making the observation that I had thought that there had been a change in your life, that's all.

 

O. A. - Life is made for changes. I look to the present and the future. Normal that there are changes in this period when everyone is stagnant.

 

M. W. - Ok. And it's true that people are stagnating, and yet we haven't been living a human tragedy for ten years like, life is not a disaster. I am not disturbed by the covid, the crisis, when we have been disabled, nailed in an armchair without being able to move hands and legs, without being able to do anything, for more than thirty years, we put the tragedies that our Quebec into perspective. , that our society lives.

 

O. A. - Watch out, I feel that you are going to fall back into your compulsion from your past, I don't want to encourage you in that.

 

M. W. - I'm just reacting because I find it appalling the people who are affected by all this, the crisis, .. frankly, it's as if we had been living through civil war for fifteen years. And I have no compulsion on my past. Stop doing psychiatry anytime. I understand that you are resident in there, but there is an end to analyzing everything everything everything. You're going to do an R6 to be a psychiatry subspecialist.

 

O. A. - Yes, I have a lot of ambition. Not showered unshaven, I leave you wish you a beautiful day.

 

M. W. - Congratulations. Don't worry, I knew you were gonna leave quickly. In all, Mr. Resident, I am not in psychiatry, but I am the age that I have, I have my life experience, even if I have no studies, and I tell you, do Seriously pay attention to the way you talk to people, that signals a form of arrogance, and it could seriously make you undrinkable and narcissistic.

 

O. A. - What would you say Didier if we took leave of each other? Ooops, I meant "Maksim", sorry ...

 

Mr. W. - I just saw you online, I guess you're going to leave quickly, I just want to tell you that I am removing you from my contacts, I will even block you right now. You didn't even reply to my last message last night, at least I didn't receive it. But anyway, I didn't like the way you spoke to me, so I'm gonna stop talking to you. It's rare for a guy to get mad at me, but you pissed me off. I'm honest. Bye. Don't answer me you're blocked.

 

O. A. - No. You are incapable of it.

 

O. A. - There is no judgment in what I'm telling you, I know how to look at shamelessness and suffering, but in fact the question is above all your father. How are your relationships today? Or am I perhaps prying to ask you that? The photos you show of your beautiful face go so far against what you reveal about yourself ... I was asking you: how are you with your father?

 

M. W. - No problem. But we rarely see each other. He's had a wife for a while. But now, don't be in shock, okay? I haven't told you everything about my relationship with my father.

 

O. A. - I can hardly see what you mean.

 

M. W. - I have never been in darkness or dark thoughts. I had a strong mind. I've always smiled, but I won't lie to you if I'm nailed to a chair without being able to use my arms and legs, look out the window at life, etc. Not even being able to masturbate yourself, lol, that doesn't always make you super happy and you don't always find yourself very useful. And it is true that the men who were interested in me for not always the real business it has the merit of at least making me feel useful when the man enjoyed in me, I apologize for being believed.

 

O. A. - You don't have to apologize Maksim but you must understand that it is not given to everyone to read what you write without experiencing a minimum of discomfort.

 

M. W. - I just don't want you to be too shocked and upset, confused. I never saw myself as a victim of anything.

 

O. A. - No, but let's say that for tonight I have to respect my limits. I don't really need a lot of detail to understand a given situation, I can read between the lines. He's spending four hours, we say goodnight?

 

*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Topic 7190737

DH//737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:20:16

 

© photo Orestes Alamo - montage Digital

737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:20:16

Too long, what am I writing here? I'm the one who writes after all! If you don't have the strength to invest the five or ten minutes it would take you to read me, how do you think you can survive a date, or even a hot date? I promise these things last more than 5 minutes!

Super mega-important things you need to know:

1) Here lies a fan of tennis, seafood, and chocolate! I also have a crush on Heineken and champagne - Veuve Amiot, find me and I will love you. I'm always looking for a hedonistic partnership.

2) I love to travel, so potential travel companions are welcome. If you would like to visit, or if you are even able to offer accommodation at the following locations, let me know: Amsterdam, Eastern Europe, Scandinavia, Bé-Né-Lux, Germany, Portugal, Australia / New Zealand, Kenya, South Africa, Costa Rica, South America… or a cruise trip or a backpack trip.

3) Interests / Hobbies: In short, I am interested in a lot of everything except fishing and hunting. But if you are looking for tracks: tennis, I insist, badminton, swimming, curling, cross-country skiing, outdoor activities, gastronomy - preparation and tasting (I love, I idolize the food), gym ( for health, not to become more irresistible than I already am in my own eyes, camping, financial planning / investing, dancing (sometimes all night - welcome dance / party partners), board games, politics, l humanism, amusement parks, the performing arts, music and, again, travel.

4) Stats (you lie if you say you don't care - laughs): 35 years old, 1m80, (in real life, not just in my head), 176 pounds, 32/33 in height, sero +, broad shoulders , athletic body, and pleasantly hairy. My nature is to be 150% submissive but I can be happily versatile with another versatile dude if there is good chemistry setting in (that being said, when I'm in a position of domination, tie your toque with spindle!

5) If you don't want to fuck people who are HIV positive, which is your right, you should know that I have experienced amazing safe (no BB) sex with guys who are HIV positive and others who are not not. It's up to you to do what you want with this information. By the way, don't use the word "clean". Not only is this insulting, its use infers that people with HIV are somehow "dirty". And that is really not cool.

7) I believe in the existence of vampires. If you believe that having a desirable body, an impressive member, a young age, a supermodel look, social status, money, athletic habits in gyms and saunas in Toronto or elsewhere, or else the fact that you are HIV negative gives you the right to be stupid towards other people, we will not get along. We are all, first of all, human.

Hint: It is an asset if you are ethical, wired in mind or humor, demonstrative, creative, able to use common sense, reliable, and a person at ease in the company of someone who can mess around.

Well. It's been ... let's start.

I'm a good-natured, cheerful, friendly, and upbeat guy who has had a life journey leading to a lot of soul-searching and personal growth.

Not only can I tell you what I believe in, but also the reasons why I believe it.

Therefore, at 35, I have reached a critical point in my life where I know what kind of man I am and what my values ​​are; I have enough self-esteem not to accept less than I know I deserve; and where I found my way so I can use it to assert myself, if necessary.

On the flip side, I learned that often the problem is not what you decide but how you carry out the decision; when someone is suffering, the question of whether there was an intention to cause suffering is secondary to the suffering being experienced at the same time; that there is great power in forgiveness; how to confess when I am wrong; how to apologize; how to empathize; and how, when necessary, put aside my own selfish interests in order to do what is best for more than just me.

I admit straight away that I am a paradox in that I am very open-minded and modern when it comes to long-term relationships, but very old games when it comes to good manners, deserved respect, courtesy, sweet treats. , and concern for others. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, I believe our moms were right when they taught us that there are things that just don't get done!

Some would say that I am demanding when it comes to authenticity and self-integrity, but I don't assess others to a different standard than I impose on myself. If I demand anything from you, it is because I have the certainty of being able to deliver the same thing.

And although some would say that having such a firm sense of myself makes me stubborn, my response is that I'm curious, eclectic, adventurous (arm twisting sometimes required), that I like a good debate or a hot one. discussion, that I am actually interested in the perspective of others, and that I do not shy away from passion or intensity during a discussion.

I can assure you that I am more than open to the possibility of my perspective being influenced and taking on new challenges. But, I have also been around the block enough times to, in certain contexts, what works and doesn't work for me, what I am and am not capable of, and where my limits are.

With me, the sand tile is immense. But its borders are firm.

I try to surround myself with positive people who are also at this point in their life.

People who know who they are, have integrity because their actions match their words, who know what they want, and who are not afraid to be exactly who they are. People who know how to respect other people's boundaries and can accept being told when a boundary has been breached, admit their mistake, and take the necessary steps to correct the situation without needing to be. make a cinema.

People who, rather than saying that they no longer have childhood ailments to deal with, put their ailments on the table - because you know they are there; and if you don't know, talk to your friends. If they're real friends, they'll let you know, it won't take long - and say, “There you go! These are my own sufferings. There, you know. "

Brutal Truth: We all have our sufferings. The question is: "After dressing them, do you have any tape left?"

People who, like me, try to be deliberate in the choice of their words and gestures, who act with a clear intention, who live the present moment (without sacrificing the future), and who try to live according to the principle: "May each person who crosses my path today have their day improved by this experience."

With this, I'm definitely not an angel.

In fact, I am quite a "bad boy" - but I am a good "bad boy" - and accomplices who are just as comfortable with their "inner bad boy" without losing their balance, or their integrity or sense. ethics, are particularly welcome!

 

737 Re://T7190 [Soav/Koios - Heineken] post. 21-05-15 16:28:11

This day is enhanced by our meeting, and the reading that you offer with a profile as exquisite as transparent in honesty. I would be willing to engulf myself more in the pleasure of a symbiosis with such an effervescent being. Good day to you too, mad and wise in desire, of a magus subject to the ambiguity of his feelings for you.